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Three days · Monterey and Carmel from San Francisco

Monterey and Carmel with the grandkids: sea otters, a kelp forest and a grove of butterflies

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Two nights in Monterey and three gentle days for grandparents and grandchildren: the Monterey Bay Aquarium and the old cannery waterfront, the coves and cypress of Point Lobos with Carmel Mission after lunch, and the winter monarch grove in Pacific Grove before the drive home.

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Illustration: the cover for 3 Days in Monterey and Carmel, a rocky Pacific cove with gnarled cypress trees on a headland, kelp beds and a sea otter floating on its back at golden hour
Original illustrated itinerary artwork
Wave-worn granite rocks and a cove at Point Lobos State Natural Reserve
Point Lobos · granite rocks, cypress and coves just south of Carmel

The trip in 60 seconds

Illustration: route map of the three days, an illustrated bird’s-eye view of the Monterey Peninsula with numbered pins at the Monterey Bay Aquarium on Cannery Row (Day 1), Point Lobos south of Carmel (Day 2) and the Monarch Grove Sanctuary in Pacific Grove (Day 3)
The Monterey Peninsula in three days · the aquarium, Point Lobos and the Pacific Grove monarchs

Postcards from the trip

The sign over Old Fisherman’s Wharf in Monterey
Old Fisherman’s Wharf · boats, chowder and sea lions under the pilings
The adobe Custom House on Custom House Plaza in Monterey
The Custom House · an adobe from Monterey’s years as California’s capital
The stone front of the Carmel Mission Basilica with its bell tower
Carmel Mission · the stone basilica and its gardens on Rio Road
Point Pinos Lighthouse, a small white lighthouse with a tower, in Pacific Grove
Point Pinos Lighthouse · lit since 1855 at the tip of the peninsula

The idea

Two nights in Monterey, one kelp forest and a grove of butterflies.

The Monterey Peninsula is about two hours south of San Francisco, and in winter it is at its quietest. The Monterey Bay Aquarium sits on the old cannery waterfront, Point Lobos guards the coves south of Carmel, and from about November to February thousands of monarch butterflies can gather in the trees of a small sanctuary in Pacific Grove.

This plan keeps one base in Monterey for both nights. Day 1 is the drive down and a long afternoon at the aquarium. Day 2 is Point Lobos in the morning and Carmel Mission and Carmel Beach after lunch. Day 3 is the monarch grove, the old lighthouse and the shore at Lovers Point before the drive home. Every walk is short, and the car is never far.

Which trip is for you: if it is two of you on a longer coast road trip, the San Francisco and Big Sur guide continues south past Point Lobos. This plan is a slow weekend with the grandchildren. More shore routes sit under Coastal Drives.

The route

Three days, one Monterey base, three kinds of coast

The bay and its kelp forest on Friday, granite coves on Saturday and the butterfly trees on Sunday, both nights in the same rooms.

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Before you go

Plan & pack

Pack for a winter coast weekend with grandkids

  • Binoculars. For sea otters in the kelp, seals on the rocks and whale spouts far out.
  • Layers and a windproof jacket each. The coast is cool and changeable even on sunny days.
  • Shoes with grip. For damp trail edges at Point Lobos and the rocks at Lovers Point.
  • Aquarium tickets for your date. Bought on the aquarium’s own website.
  • Cash or a card for the Point Lobos fee. Paid per car at the entrance.
  • Snacks and water in the car. There is no café inside Point Lobos.
  • A small notebook. For the kids to log every animal they spot.
  • A phone charger. Tickets and maps live on your phone.
Sea otters floating at the Monterey Bay Aquarium
Sea otters, the stars of the weekend. Sea otters · the aquarium’s otters, a favourite with every age
The paved Monterey Bay Coastal Recreation Trail along the shore
The flat shore path along the bay. The recreation trail · a flat shore path for walkers and bikes
Illustration: a closed travel notebook, a folded blank map, small binoculars, a sea-otter plush, an abalone shell and a sprig of cypress on a sunny wooden table, original illustrated plan card
Original illustration · a notebook, a folded map, binoculars, a sea-otter plush and an abalone shell on a table

The Monterey weekend, on one table

The plan card sets the weekend out on a table: binoculars for the coves, a sea-otter plush for the youngest traveller and a shell from the shore. Each drive, ticket and opening time is in the day-by-day above.

The sign over Old Fisherman’s Wharf in MontereyThe adobe Custom House on Custom House Plaza in MontereyThe paved Monterey Bay Coastal Recreation Trail along the shore
Around Monterey · Old Fisherman’s Wharf, the Custom House and the shore path
Illustration: Monterey Bay at golden hour with a calm curve of shoreline, kelp beds on the water, a sea otter floating on its back and cypress trees on the point, original illustrated recap card
Original illustration · Monterey Bay at golden hour with kelp beds and a floating sea otter

How the weekend ends

The recap card closes on the bay at golden hour, a sea otter afloat in the kelp. The day-by-day keeps every drive time, ticket and opening hour.

The stone front of the Carmel Mission Basilica with its bell towerPoint Pinos Lighthouse, a small white lighthouse with a tower, in Pacific GroveLovers Point Park with rocks and a small beach in Pacific Grove
Carmel and Pacific Grove · Carmel Mission, Point Pinos Lighthouse and Lovers Point

Quick answers

Planning notes

How far is Monterey from San Francisco?

About 120 miles, roughly 2 hours 15 minutes by car without traffic, via US-101 or the coast road through Santa Cruz.

How much are Monterey Bay Aquarium tickets?

About $65 for adults, $50 for ages 5 to 17 and for seniors 70 and over, and free for ages 4 and under. Buy them for a date on the aquarium’s own website.

When can you see monarch butterflies in Pacific Grove?

Monarchs usually arrive in mid-October, peak from about November to January and leave in February. The sanctuary is free and open from sunrise to sunset; check the museum’s weekly count before you go.

Can you see whales from shore in Monterey in winter?

Often, yes. Gray whales pass through Monterey Bay on their southbound migration from December; look for spouts from the aquarium deck or Point Lobos with binoculars. Sightings are never guaranteed.

How much does Point Lobos cost?

About $10 per car, or $9 for a car with a senior. Parking is limited, so arrive before about 9:30 a.m. or after 3 p.m.

Is Monterey good for grandparents with grandkids?

Yes. The aquarium is indoors with plenty of seating, the Point Lobos and monarch paths are short and mostly level, and everything is a short drive apart.

Before you set off — the official checks

Tickets, seasons and opening hours. Confirm current details on the sites listed under official links.

References

Research behind this guide

The reporting and research that shaped this itinerary.

Seasons in the Sanctuary ↗Monterey Bay National Marine Sanctuary (NOAA)
Monarchs ↗Pacific Grove Museum of Natural History
Visitor information ↗Point Lobos Foundation

Photo credits

Photos via Wikimedia Commons, resized and converted to WebP. The illustrated cover, day cards, plan card and recap card are this guide’s original itinerary artwork, illustrated from the credited photos listed here.

  • Point Lobos — photo by Brocken Inaglory, CC BY-SA 3.0; this resized copy is shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0); it is also the basis of the Cover and Cover web illustrations, shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0)
  • Monterey Bay Aquarium — photo by Meij.kobayashi, Public domain; it is also the basis of the Day 1 card illustration
  • Point Lobos cove — photo by King of Hearts, CC BY-SA 3.0; this resized copy is shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0); it is also the basis of the Day 2 card illustration, shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0)
  • Pacific Grove monarchs — photo by Pacific Southwest Region USFWS, Public domain; it is also the basis of the Day 3 card illustration
  • Sea otters — photo by Fred Hsu (Wikipedia:User:Fredhsu on en.wikipedia), CC BY-SA 3.0; this resized copy is shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0); it is also the basis of the Packing card illustration, shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0)
  • Coastal Recreation Trail — photo by Pi.1415926535, CC BY-SA 3.0; this resized copy is shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0)
  • Lovers Point — photo by Daderot, CC0
  • Old Fisherman’s Wharf — photo by TheConduqtor, CC BY-SA 3.0; this resized copy is shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0)
  • Custom House — photo by Robert W. Kerrigan - Photographer, Public domain
  • Carmel Mission — photo by Nheyob, CC BY-SA 3.0; this resized copy is shared under the same license (CC BY-SA 3.0)
  • Point Pinos Lighthouse — photo by Lisa Andres, CC BY 2.0
  • Route map — original illustrated route artwork for this guide; stop locations from OpenStreetMap

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