Couples · 3 days · 2 nights · Jersey Shore

Cape May for two, at the Jersey Shore

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Three slow days for two at the tip of the Jersey Shore, with Victorian porches, a lighthouse on the dunes and sunset over the bay.

3 days / 2 nightsPeak May–OctCouples
Original Illustration: Victorian houses with porches on a Cape May street that ends at the ocean
Original Illustration
Victorian cottages on a street in Cape May, New Jersey
Victorian cottages on a street in Cape May, New Jersey

The trip in 60 seconds

Original IllustrationIllustrated route map: Washington Street Mall, Beach Avenue Promenade, Cape May Lighthouse, Sunset Beach, Emlen Physick Estate
Washington Street Mall → Beach Avenue Promenade → Cape May Lighthouse → Sunset Beach → Emlen Physick Estate

The idea

Why Cape May works for two

Cape May sits at the southern tip of New Jersey, where the Atlantic Ocean meets the Delaware Bay. It was one of the first seaside resorts in the country, and after a fire in 1878 the town rebuilt itself in the Victorian styles of the day. Today the whole town is a National Historic Landmark, with hundreds of restored houses, inns and porches a short walk from the beach.

This plan gives you one day on foot in the historic district and along the Promenade, one day out at Cape May Point for the 1859 lighthouse, the state park and sunset over the SS Atlantus, and one easy morning at the Emlen Physick Estate before the drive home. It works in summer, but it is at its calmest in late spring and early fall, when the inns are quiet and the light on the water is soft.

The route

The route, day by day

The historic district and the Promenade, then west to Cape May Point and Sunset Beach, then the Physick Estate

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Plan & pack

Pack for the trip

  • Comfortable walking shoes
  • A light jacket for evenings by the water
  • Sunscreen and a hat
  • Insect repellent for the marsh trails
  • A small bag for Cape May diamonds
  • Binoculars for birds at the point
  • Cash for beach tags and snacks
  • A reusable water bottle
Postcard photo 1
Beach Avenue Promenade
Postcard photo 2
Cape May Lighthouse
Original IllustrationIllustrated recap card: Cape May
Cape May

Where to stay

Stay two nights in the historic district so you can walk to dinner and the beach. Congress Hall faces the ocean a block from the Mall, The Virginia Hotel is small and quiet on Jackson Street, and many of the Victorian houses are now bed and breakfasts with porches and a full breakfast. Summer weekends fill early and often have two- or three-night minimums, so reserve ahead; spring and fall are easier and cheaper.

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Cape May beach at dusk with the surf rolling in
Cape May beach at dusk with the surf rolling in

Getting there

Cape May is at the southern end of the Garden State Parkway, about 90 minutes from Atlantic City, about two hours from Philadelphia and about three hours from New York City by car. Atlantic City International Airport is the nearest airport, about an hour away. From Delaware, the Cape May–Lewes Ferry crosses the bay in about an hour and a half. A car is useful for Cape May Point, but in town you can walk everywhere.

Quick answers

Planning notes

Is Cape May good for couples?

Yes. The Victorian streets, inn porches, quiet beaches and sunsets over the bay make it an easy, romantic getaway, especially in late spring and early fall when the town is calm.

How many days do you need in Cape May?

Two nights and three days is enough for the historic district, the lighthouse and state park, Sunset Beach and the Physick Estate without rushing. A third night lets you add a bike ride or a ferry day.

How much does it cost to climb the Cape May Lighthouse?

For 2026, Cape May MAC lists admission at $12 for adults and $8 for children ages 3 to 12. Climbing hours change with the season, so check the schedule before you go.

How many steps are in the Cape May Lighthouse?

There are 199 steps on the original cast-iron spiral stairway. The 1859 tower stands 157 feet 6 inches tall, and the view from the top takes in the bay, the ocean and the marshes.

What is the shipwreck at Sunset Beach?

It is the SS Atlantus, a concrete ship built in 1918. It broke loose in a storm and ran aground off Sunset Beach in 1926, and its broken hull still sits just offshore.

What are Cape May diamonds?

They are small quartz pebbles that wash up on Sunset Beach after a long trip down the Delaware River. They look cloudy when dry and can be polished into clear stones.

Do you need a car in Cape May?

Not in town, where everything is a short walk. A car or bike helps for Cape May Point, about three miles west, and for the drive in. Many inns offer parking, so check when you reserve.

Do Cape May beaches charge a fee?

In summer, town beaches require a beach tag, sold at stands near the beach entrances and in town. Outside the summer season, the beaches are free to walk.

What is the Emlen Physick Estate?

It is an 18-room Victorian mansion built in 1879 and designed by Frank Furness. It is Cape May's Victorian house museum, open for timed visits with a docent; 2026 adult tickets are $20.

When is the quietest time to visit Cape May?

Late spring and September through October are quieter than July and August, with warm days, open inns and easier dinner reservations. Fall also brings the bird and monarch migration at the point.

Can you take a ferry to Cape May?

Yes. The Cape May–Lewes Ferry crosses the Delaware Bay between Lewes, Delaware and North Cape May in about an hour and a half. Reserve a car spot ahead on summer weekends.

Before you set off — the official checks

Fees, hours, closures and visitor rules can change. Confirm current details on the sites listed under official links.

References

Research behind this guide

The reporting and research that shaped this itinerary.

Photo credits

Photos via Wikimedia Commons, resized and converted to WebP.

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